Reverse Mortgage vs. HELOC: Which Is Best for You? (w/Examples) + FAQs

For homeowners needing cash, a Home Equity Conversion Mortgage (HECM), or reverse mortgage, is best for retirees who need income without monthly payments. A Home Equity Line of Credit (HELOC) is better for homeowners of any age who have stable income and need flexible, short-term access to funds. The core conflict between these two products for a retiree is a fundamental clash of legal structure and financial risk.

The primary issue stems from federal regulations governing how these loans must be repaid. A HECM is defined by the Department of Housing and Urban Development (HUD) as a non-recourse loan under 12 C.F.R. § 1026.33. This means the homeowner or their heirs will never owe more than the home’s value, and repayment is deferred until they leave the home. A HELOC, however, is a recourse loan that legally requires mandatory monthly payments, creating a direct risk of foreclosure for non-payment—a structure that can be catastrophic for a senior on a fixed income.

This distinction is critical, as homeowners aged 62 and older hold a staggering $13.2 trillion in home equity, a vast resource that can be either a lifeline or a liability depending on the product chosen. This guide will break down every detail to help you make the right choice.  

  • Understand the Core DNA of Each Loan: Learn the fundamental legal and financial structure of both reverse mortgages and HELOCs.
  • 💰 Master the Costs and Fees: Discover every upfront and ongoing cost, so you can see which loan is truly cheaper for your specific situation.
  • 🏡 See Real-World Scenarios: Walk through the three most common situations—retirement income, home renovations, and medical costs—to see which loan wins.
  • ⚠️ Avoid Devastating Mistakes: Learn the common pitfalls that can lead to foreclosure or financial hardship with both types of loans.
  • 👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 Protect Your Family’s Inheritance: Understand exactly how each loan impacts the equity you leave to your heirs and what their options will be.

The Anatomy of a Reverse Mortgage (HECM)

What Exactly Is a Reverse Mortgage?

A Home Equity Conversion Mortgage (HECM) is the most common type of reverse mortgage in the United States, insured by the Federal Housing Administration (FHA). It is a special loan only for homeowners aged 62 or older that lets you convert a portion of your home equity into cash. The name “reverse” comes from the fact that the payment stream is reversed: instead of you paying the lender each month, the lender makes payments to you.  

A common myth is that the bank takes ownership of your home. This is false. You keep the title and full ownership of your home throughout the loan. The lender simply places a lien on the property, the same as with a traditional mortgage, to ensure the loan is repaid when it eventually becomes due.  

The loan balance on a reverse mortgage grows over time. Each month, interest and mortgage insurance premiums are added to the amount you owe. This process is called negative amortization, and it means your home equity decreases as your loan balance increases.  

The most important protection offered by a HECM is its non-recourse feature. This FHA-insured guarantee means that you or your heirs will never owe more than the home is worth when the loan is repaid, even if the loan balance has grown larger than the home’s value. The FHA’s insurance fund covers any shortfall, protecting your other assets.  

Who Is the Ideal Candidate for a Reverse Mortgage?

To qualify for a HECM, every borrower on the loan must meet strict federal requirements. You must be at least 62 years old and the home must be your primary residence, meaning you live there for the majority of the year. You must also own your home outright or have a significant amount of equity, typically 50% or more.  

Any existing mortgage on the property must be paid off at the HECM closing. Many borrowers use a portion of the reverse mortgage proceeds to do this. This is a key strategy for retirees, as it eliminates their mandatory monthly mortgage payment, freeing up cash flow.  

A critical step in the process is the Financial Assessment. Lenders are required by HUD to analyze your credit history and income to ensure you have the financial capacity to continue paying for property taxes, homeowners insurance, and home maintenance. This isn’t to see if you can repay the loan itself, but to prevent default on these essential property charges, which was a major problem in the past.  

If the lender determines there’s a risk you might fall behind on these payments, they will establish a Life Expectancy Set-Aside (LESA). This is an account funded from your loan proceeds that the lender uses to pay your future property taxes and insurance for you, acting as a safeguard against foreclosure.  

How You Get Your Money: The Five Payout Options

A HECM offers several ways to receive your funds, and your choice impacts whether you get a fixed or variable interest rate.

  • Lump Sum: You receive all available proceeds in a single payment at closing. This is the only option that allows for a fixed interest rate.  
  • Tenure: You receive equal monthly payments for as long as you live in the home as your primary residence. This option comes with a variable interest rate.  
  • Term: You receive equal monthly payments for a specific number of years that you choose. This also comes with a variable interest rate.  
  • Line of Credit: You can draw funds as you need them, up to your principal limit. This is the most popular option and has a variable interest rate.  
  • Combination: You can combine monthly payments (either tenure or term) with a line of credit.  

The HECM Line of Credit has a unique and powerful feature: the unused portion of your credit line grows over time. The growth rate is equal to your loan’s interest rate plus the annual mortgage insurance premium rate. This means your available borrowing power increases automatically, regardless of whether your home’s value goes up or down.  

When Does the Loan Have to Be Repaid?

A reverse mortgage does not have a fixed end date like a 30-year mortgage. The loan becomes “due and payable” only when a specific maturity event occurs. These events are not payment defaults but are life changes that trigger the end of the loan term.  

The most common maturity events are:

  1. The last surviving borrower passes away, sells the home, or permanently moves out.  
  2. The borrower is absent from the home for more than 12 consecutive months, for example, by moving into a long-term care facility.  
  3. The borrower fails to meet their loan obligations, such as paying property taxes and homeowners insurance or maintaining the home.  

When a maturity event happens, the borrower or their heirs typically have six months (with possible extensions) to repay the loan. This is almost always done by selling the home and using the proceeds to pay off the loan balance.  

The Anatomy of a Home Equity Line of Credit (HELOC)

What Exactly Is a HELOC?

A Home Equity Line of Credit (HELOC) is a revolving line of credit that lets you borrow against your home’s equity. Think of it like a credit card, but with two major differences: your home is the collateral securing the loan, and the interest rate is usually much lower than a credit card’s.  

You can draw money from the HELOC as needed, up to a pre-approved credit limit, using special checks or online transfers. A key feature is that you only pay interest on the amount you’ve actually borrowed, not on the total credit line available. As you pay back the principal, your available credit is replenished, and you can borrow it again.  

Unlike a reverse mortgage, a HELOC is available to homeowners of any age. However, qualifying is much more like a traditional loan. Lenders will look for good to excellent credit scores (often 700+ for the best rates), a stable and verifiable income, and a low debt-to-income (DTI) ratio, typically 43% or less.  

You also need to have sufficient equity in your home. Most lenders require you to keep at least 15-20% of your equity after the HELOC is opened, meaning your total debt (primary mortgage + HELOC) cannot exceed 80-85% of your home’s value.  

The Two-Act Structure: Draw Period vs. Repayment Period

Every HELOC has a lifecycle split into two distinct phases. Understanding this structure is critical to avoiding financial trouble.

  1. The Draw Period: This is the first phase, typically lasting 5 to 10 years, where you can actively borrow money from your credit line. During this time, you are required to make minimum monthly payments. Many HELOCs allow for interest-only payments during the draw period, which keeps your initial payments very low but means you are not reducing the principal amount you owe.  
  2. The Repayment Period: Once the draw period ends, you can no longer borrow money. The loan then converts into a fully amortizing loan, and you must begin making monthly payments that cover both principal and interest. This period typically lasts 10 to 20 years.  

This transition is where many homeowners get into trouble. The switch from interest-only payments to fully amortized payments can cause a sudden and dramatic increase in your required monthly payment, a phenomenon known as “payment shock.” If you are not prepared for this jump, it can severely strain your budget.  

The Risk of Variable Rates and Lender Actions

The vast majority of HELOCs have a variable interest rate. This rate is typically calculated by adding a lender’s margin to a benchmark index, most often the U.S. Prime Rate. Because the Prime Rate moves up and down with the federal funds rate, your HELOC’s interest rate—and your monthly payment—can change.  

While HELOCs have rate caps that limit how high the rate can go, a rising rate environment can still lead to significantly higher payments. This was a painful lesson for many homeowners who saw their payments double when rates rose unexpectedly. Some lenders offer an option to convert a portion of your variable-rate balance to a fixed rate, which can provide more predictability.  

A significant risk unique to HELOCs is that the lender can freeze, reduce, or even cancel your line of credit at their discretion. This can happen if your home’s value drops significantly or if your financial situation worsens. It can also happen during a broad economic downturn, just when you might need the money most, making a HELOC an unreliable long-term emergency fund.  

Head-to-Head Comparison: Reverse Mortgage vs. HELOC

The best way to understand these two complex products is to see them side-by-side. The following table breaks down their core features, requirements, and risks.

| Feature | Reverse Mortgage (HECM) | Home Equity Line of Credit (HELOC) | |—|—| | Primary Borrower | Homeowners 62 or older, often with limited income. | Homeowners of any age with stable income and good credit. | | Monthly Payments | None required. Loan is repaid when you leave the home. | Mandatory. Interest-only payments during draw period, then principal + interest. | | Interest Rate | Fixed (lump sum only) or variable. Interest is added to the loan balance. | Almost always variable, tied to the Prime Rate. Payments can rise or fall. | | How Debt Changes | Loan balance grows over time (negative amortization). | Loan balance can be paid down. Revolving credit is restored as you repay. | | Upfront Costs | Higher. Includes origination fees, FHA mortgage insurance, and closing costs. | Lower. Many lenders waive closing costs and application fees. | | Credit Line Security | Cannot be frozen or reduced by the lender as long as you meet loan terms. | Can be frozen, reduced, or canceled at the lender’s discretion. | | Key Protection | Non-Recourse Loan. You or your heirs will never owe more than the home’s value. | Recourse Loan. The lender can pursue you for the difference if the home sale doesn’t cover the debt. | | Foreclosure Trigger | Failure to pay property taxes, insurance, or maintain the home. | Failure to make the required monthly loan payments. | | Impact on Heirs | Heirs inherit the remaining equity after the loan is repaid. They can sell the home or pay off the loan to keep it. | The estate is responsible for the outstanding debt. The loan balance is more predictable. |  

The 3 Most Common Scenarios: Which Loan Is the Right Tool?

The choice between a reverse mortgage and a HELOC often comes down to your specific goal. The right tool for one job can be the wrong tool for another.

Scenario 1: You Need More Monthly Income in Retirement

This is the classic “house-rich, cash-poor” situation. You have plenty of home equity but your Social Security and pension aren’t enough to cover your bills comfortably.

A reverse mortgage is almost always the superior tool for this job. By choosing the “tenure” payment option, you can create a steady, tax-free stream of monthly payments that lasts for as long as you live in your home. A more advanced strategy is using HECM payments to delay taking Social Security until age 70, which permanently increases your monthly Social Security benefit for life.  

A HELOC is poorly suited for this. The mandatory monthly payments and variable interest rate risk create the exact financial pressure a retiree is trying to escape.  

Your GoalThe Consequence
Use a Reverse Mortgage for Income: Select tenure payments to receive $800 per month.You have no new monthly bill. Your loan balance grows over time, reducing your home’s equity, but your cash flow is stable and predictable.
Use a HELOC for Income: Withdraw $800 per month from your HELOC.You now have a mandatory monthly payment. If interest rates rise, that payment will increase, adding financial stress when you can least afford it.

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Scenario 2: You Want to Fund a Home Renovation

Both loans are popular for home improvements, but the best choice depends on the project’s scope and your ability to make payments.

A HELOC is perfect for renovations that happen in phases or have an uncertain budget. If you’re remodeling the kitchen now and the bathroom next year, you can draw funds as needed. You only pay interest on what you use, and that interest may be tax-deductible if used to “buy, build, or substantially improve” the home.  

A reverse mortgage is a better fit for a large, one-time project, especially for a retiree who cannot afford a new monthly payment. This is particularly true for “aging-in-place” modifications like installing a walk-in shower or wheelchair ramps, which improve safety and quality of life without adding financial strain.  

Your ProjectThe Financial Outcome
Fund a Phased Remodel with a HELOC: Draw $20,000 for the kitchen, then $15,000 for the bathroom six months later.You only pay interest on the amount drawn for each phase. Your payments are low initially, but you must have the income to handle fully amortized payments later.
Fund an Accessibility Remodel with a Reverse Mortgage: Take a $35,000 lump sum to install a stairlift and accessible bathroom.The cost of the renovation is added to your loan balance. You have no new monthly payment, allowing you to make essential upgrades without impacting your budget.

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Scenario 3: You Need a Safety Net for Future Medical Costs

Planning for future healthcare or long-term care expenses is a top concern for many seniors. The two loans offer vastly different levels of security.

The HECM line of credit is a uniquely powerful tool for this purpose. By opening a HECM line of credit early in retirement and leaving it untouched, the available credit grows significantly over time. This creates a large, guaranteed, and non-callable fund you can tap into decades later for in-home care or other medical needs, without the burden of monthly payments during a health crisis.  

A HELOC can provide quick cash for an immediate, unexpected medical bill. However, it introduces a new monthly payment at a time when you may be facing other financial stresses. The risk that the lender could freeze the line makes it an unreliable safety net for long-term planning.  

Your StrategyThe Result in a Health Crisis
Establish a “Standby” HECM Line of Credit: Open a $150,000 HECM LOC at age 65 and let it grow untouched.At age 80, your available credit may have grown to over $300,000. You can draw funds to pay for in-home care with no monthly payment obligation.
Rely on a HELOC for Emergencies: Keep a HELOC open for unexpected medical bills.When you need the funds, you draw them and immediately face a new monthly bill. If the crisis coincides with an economic downturn, you risk the lender freezing your line entirely.

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Do’s and Don’ts: Navigating Your Decision

Making the right choice requires discipline and a clear understanding of what each product is designed for.

Reverse Mortgage (HECM)

Do’sDon’ts
Do plan to stay in your home long-term to justify the upfront costs.Don’t get one if you plan to move in the next few years.
Do use it to improve your retirement cash flow or for strategic goals like delaying Social Security.Don’t get pressured into one by a contractor for home repairs.  
Do have an open conversation with your heirs about how it will affect their inheritance.  Don’t forget you are still responsible for property taxes, insurance, and maintenance.  
Do work with a HUD-approved counselor to fully understand the loan.  Don’t use the proceeds to buy risky investments or annuities.  
Do understand the rules for non-borrowing spouses if applicable.Don’t assume it’s “free money” from the government; it’s a loan that accrues interest.  

Home Equity Line of Credit (HELOC)

Do’sDon’ts
Do have a stable income and a plan to handle potentially higher payments in the future.Don’t use it to fund a lifestyle you can’t afford or for everyday expenses.  
Do use it for short-to-medium term projects with clear budgets, like phased renovations.Don’t only make interest-only payments without a plan to pay down the principal.
Do shop around with multiple lenders to compare rates, margins, and fees.Don’t forget that your home is the collateral; you can lose it if you default.  
Do understand the difference between the draw and repayment periods and prepare for “payment shock.”Don’t rely on it as a long-term emergency fund, as the lender can freeze the line.  
Do ask about a fixed-rate conversion option if you are worried about rising rates.  Don’t open new credit cards after using a HELOC for debt consolidation.  

Mistakes to Avoid: The Paths to Financial Heartbreak

Both loans have traps that can lead to serious consequences, including foreclosure. Here are the most critical mistakes to avoid.

Reverse Mortgage Mistakes

  • Forgetting About Property Charges: The most common reason for reverse mortgage foreclosure is failing to pay property taxes and homeowners insurance. Even though you have no monthly mortgage payment, these bills are still your responsibility. The lender will advance money to pay them if you don’t, increasing your loan balance, and can ultimately foreclose if you remain delinquent.  
  • Misunderstanding Spousal Rules: If only one spouse is on the loan (e.g., because the other is under 62), the loan becomes due when that borrowing spouse dies or moves out. While HUD has created protections for an “Eligible Non-Borrowing Spouse,” the rules are complex and must be followed precisely to allow the surviving spouse to remain in the home.  
  • Moving Out for Too Long: If you move into a nursing home or assisted living facility for more than 12 consecutive months, the lender can declare the loan due and payable. This can force an unplanned sale of the home.  

HELOC Mistakes

  • Ignoring “Payment Shock”: The biggest shock for HELOC borrowers is the massive payment increase when the loan switches from the interest-only draw period to the principal-and-interest repayment period. If you haven’t budgeted for this, it can lead to default.  
  • Treating It Like a Piggy Bank: The easy access to cash can tempt homeowners to use their HELOC for vacations, cars, or other discretionary spending. This is a dangerous habit that racks up debt secured by your most valuable asset—your home.  
  • Underestimating Variable Rate Risk: In a rising interest rate environment, a variable-rate HELOC can become unaffordable. A rate that seems low today could be several points higher in a few years, causing your monthly payments to balloon.  

The Step-by-Step Process: What to Expect

Getting a Reverse Mortgage (HECM)

The HECM process is highly regulated and involves mandatory consumer protection steps.

  1. Education and Research: Start by learning about the product and assessing if it fits your long-term goals.
  2. Mandatory HUD Counseling: Before you can even apply, federal law requires you to complete a counseling session with an independent, HUD-approved agency. The counselor’s job is to provide unbiased information about how the loan works, the costs, your obligations, and alternatives to a reverse mortgage.  
  3. Receive Your Counseling Certificate: After the session, you will receive a certificate. You cannot proceed with a loan application without this document.
  4. Application and Financial Assessment: You will formally apply with an FHA-approved lender. The lender will conduct the property appraisal and the mandatory Financial Assessment to verify your ability to pay property charges.  
  5. Closing: If approved, you will close the loan. You have a three-day right of rescission to cancel the loan without penalty after closing.  

Getting a Home Equity Line of Credit (HELOC)

The HELOC process is faster and less regulated than a HECM’s, but still requires careful attention.

  1. Check Your Financials: Before applying, review your credit score, calculate your home equity, and determine your debt-to-income ratio. Lenders typically want to see at least 15-20% equity, a credit score above 680, and a DTI below 43%.  
  2. Shop Lenders: Compare offers from multiple lenders, including banks and credit unions. Pay close attention to the introductory rate, the margin over the Prime Rate, rate caps, and any annual or transaction fees.  
  3. Application and Underwriting: Submit your application along with financial documents like pay stubs and tax returns. The lender will order a property appraisal to confirm your home’s value.
  4. Closing: The closing process is typically faster than a primary mortgage, often taking between two to six weeks. You also have a three-day right of rescission to cancel the agreement after signing.  

Frequently Asked Questions (FAQs)

Reverse Mortgage FAQs

  • Does the bank own my home if I get a reverse mortgage? No. You keep the title and ownership of your home. The lender only places a lien on the property to secure the loan, which is removed once the loan is repaid.  
  • Will my heirs be stuck with the debt? No. A HECM is a non-recourse loan, meaning your heirs will never owe more than the home is worth. They can sell the home to repay the loan and keep any extra equity.  
  • Can I qualify if I still have a mortgage? Yes. However, you must pay off your existing mortgage at the reverse mortgage closing. Many people use the funds from the reverse mortgage itself to accomplish this.  
  • Does a reverse mortgage affect my Social Security or Medicare? No. Loan proceeds are not considered income and do not affect your eligibility for Social Security or Medicare. However, unspent funds could affect eligibility for needs-based programs like Medicaid.  
  • What if I have bad credit? No minimum credit score is required. However, a lender will conduct a financial assessment to ensure you can pay property taxes and insurance. A poor credit history may require a set-aside account.  

HELOC FAQs

  • Is the interest I pay on a HELOC tax-deductible? Yes, it may be. The interest is generally deductible if you use the funds to “buy, build, or substantially improve” the home that secures the loan. Always consult a tax advisor.  
  • What happens when the draw period ends? You can no longer borrow money. The loan enters the repayment period, and you must begin making monthly payments that include both principal and interest, which are usually significantly higher.  
  • Can I get a fixed interest rate? Yes, sometimes. While most HELOCs have variable rates, many lenders offer a “fixed-rate advance” option that lets you lock in a fixed rate on a specific portion of your balance.  
  • How quickly can I get a HELOC? The process is typically faster than a mortgage. From application to closing, it usually takes between two and six weeks, depending on the lender and the appraisal process.  
  • Can my lender really freeze my credit line? Yes. Unlike a reverse mortgage, a lender has the right to reduce or freeze your HELOC if your home’s value falls significantly or your financial situation changes for the worse.